I would say if this was where most relationships were based, then maybe I would have slept with almost all the girls in my neighborhood. Does this No strings attached theory really works or it’s just a way of running away from feeling something for that particular someone?
It all start with having a friend who you kiss, who you say does have a problem with you seeing other people while you with her/him. I’m sure that is every guys fantasy where a girl would say ” Relax anytime you want to have some crazy, steamy hot , sex call me, NO STRINGS ATTACHED” you will hold on to that number for dear life and hope she don’t get a serious boyfriend.
I’m wrong though when saying only “MEN” cause even if the ladies won’t agree with me they do wish that they can have that kind of freedom without being called names. Well ladies you can and No one has to know…lol **hides**. Having this kind of relationship with someone mostly it ends up with either parties falling for the other and then boom reality hits them. If the other party is not interested in a relationship rather than sex then they will bail, act all angry on your ass. It won’t be sudden no no no, it will involve detailed planning on how to make you stop this relationship while thinking it was your idea to stop it meanwhile it not.
When you sleeping with someone there has to be some connection, even the ladies @ 101 Smith Street are getting paid do for the connection 
( sorry ladies don’t know where the guys one is ), so what will make your transaction not billable. It will be either you and your “friend” falls for you and you that will be the end of it. So what’s next when one has confessed feelings for the other party, well it’s simple they break up. See mostly it’s man who initiate the breakup in silence and then woman will think they did, we put all the answers where it will be easy for you to find them (relax guys I won’t go in details). For woman sleeping with a guy without hearing the famous words (“I love you”) is kind of difficult especially if you fancied the guy. You know this might be your only chance to be visible to him or blow his socks away. Ada khadabra…. then he likes you.
( sorry ladies don’t know where the guys one is ), so what will make your transaction not billable. It will be either you and your “friend” falls for you and you that will be the end of it. So what’s next when one has confessed feelings for the other party, well it’s simple they break up. See mostly it’s man who initiate the breakup in silence and then woman will think they did, we put all the answers where it will be easy for you to find them (relax guys I won’t go in details). For woman sleeping with a guy without hearing the famous words (“I love you”) is kind of difficult especially if you fancied the guy. You know this might be your only chance to be visible to him or blow his socks away. Ada khadabra…. then he likes you.Well sorry to blow away that little smile on your face but that’s not how it is. You can never share intimate, behind closed doors with someone and expect them to love you just because they had a chance to rock your boat. Just pray he won’t tell you about a girlfriend that he never broke up with and she is back or guys he tells you about his brother who is a pain the ass and she can’t shake off. When you see or hear any of these then guess what you have been dumped no more sex sessions for you china.
No strings attached, is it a myth ?
No matter how you can say you can master it, this thing is like embed in a human brain , that is why one crazy person called it Love Making cause during sex you bond with that person cause you sharing what you treasure with him/her, unless you are the 101 Smith street ladies for them it’s for rent and supporting their families. What if the person you are busy with is married and they just didn’t tell you, what if you breaking someone’s relationship or a chance on being happy? We all know men are weak when the blood get hot, a few can control their feelings and act right.
Take this for an example, a girl passed by and she is hot wearing Lord have mercy outfit. What does a man do, runaway, hides, or he turn and looks till he drools ?
?Ladies what do you do when a hot guy passed by , do you walk straight and not look back, pretend you never saw him or you smile and look at him thinking damn brother you fine…?
We all have our weaknesses it in us, it’s like a back light on a cellphone, no back light at night on your cellphone then good luck finding your phone when it rings
Well the floor is open, what are your views on this as much as I think it’s awesome having this kind of relationship it is dangerous on the other hand.
To those who haven’t watched this movie “No strings attached” go check it out at the cinemas near you.
BY: Bongani “Napoleon” Dlamini
